Dear Queenie,

A couple of years ago I was in a relationship with this guy and we never really forgot each other. We recently started talking again and things between us seem to go well but we’re having a little difficulty with seeing each other because we’re both always working.

On the other hand I’m attracted to a church boy. I feel attracted to this guy because of his sincere compassion in serving Christ and we had a little thing going on, but suddenly stopped. We always see each other and get along really well.

My problem is that I’m not sure which one I’d rather settle for. I love my ex and I’m honestly really attracted to the church guy.

Queenie, what would you advise me to do?—Can’t decide

Dear Queenie, A friend of mine is engaged to a man that I happen to know is cheating on her. If it was me, I would want to know, especially before I actually married the guy.

Queenie, should I tell her or keep quiet? Actually, all she has to do is check the texts and pictures in his phone.—Concerned friend

Dear Queenie,

I’ve been going with this guy for a year now and we’ve each met the other’s family but the families have never met each other. I want to plan some kind of get-together for both families so they can get to know each other but he says I should wait until we get engaged or at least move in together, which I don’t think is going to be anytime soon.

Queenie, what is the correct thing to do?—Etty Ket

Dear Queenie,

My boyfriend wants us to get engaged and he's a great guy, but there's something I can't get past.

He was married before for a short time that ended in divorce. I get upset thinking about how there was someone else in his life before me. I know it is all over but I can't help feeling jealous when I think about how it must have been between them before it went bad.

Queenie, how do I get over feeling like second choice?—Green-eyed monster