Dear Queenie,
I just found out my boyfriend gave me an STD. He claims he has never cheated on me. He says he must have got it before we were together and never knew he had it, but my doctor doesn’t seem to believe him.
Queenie, what do you think?—Doubtful
Dear Doubtful,
I think your doctor may have a point.
On the other hand, is this your only concern about your boyfriend? If so, give him the benefit of the doubt.
But if there are other things about him that also worry you, you might want to give some serious thought to the future of this relationship.