Dear Queenie,
I have been seeing this man for more than a year but he doesn’t really seem to care about me.
He used to call and come by quite often but after a while not so much. He never wants to do things that I like, he always comes to my house but never takes me to his, and he only wants to see me at night and I have never met any of his family.
Queenie, is there any hope for this relationship?—Feel neglected
Dear Neglected,
What relationship? A “relationship” is a matter of give and take on both sides, but all this man does is take and all you do is give.
Whatever feelings you may have for this man, he apparently only wants what he can get from you and does not care about what you may want or need from him.
Put this man out of your life and find someone else who shares your feelings.
