Dear Queenie,
I married my girlfriend when she got pregnant so the baby would have a proper family to grow up in and things were just great at first, but since then she’s had 2 more babies and now she’s pregnant again and I just don’t see how we can afford it.
We’re still young and there should be more to life than working and taking care of babies, but she’s supposed to be on the pill and yet she keeps getting pregnant again.
Queenie, how can I get her to be more careful?—Worn out
Dear Worn out,
Just why do you put all the responsibility for birth control on your wife?
It takes two to make a baby. If you do not want to have any more children, it is up to you to take charge of the birth control question and make certain that you do not get your wife pregnant. If by now you still do not know how to do this, have a serious talk with your family physician.
