Dear Queenie,
I’m getting married and I want to have my best friend to be my maid of honour, but she dyes a red streak in her hair and it will clash with the colours I have chosen.
Queenie, is it okay if I ask her to take the colour out of her hair just for the wedding?—Bride-to-be
Dear Bride-to-be,
You may ask her to change her hair colour on your account, but do not be offended if she refuses to do so. And she may refuse to be your maid of honour because of the colour-clash.
If you wanted her to be your maid of honour you should have considered her hair colour when you chose your colour scheme. Do not be a bride-zilla!