Dear Queenie,
I always thought I had the perfect husband. But recently when he was sick in the hospital I overheard him talking to a prostitute that he has been seeing all along.
Queenie, what should I do” And should I tell our children, who are all adults?—Devastated
Dear Devastated,
What you do about your marriage is up to you. Professional counselling and legal advice would help you make up your mind.
As for your children, that depends on what you decide to do about your marriage. If you decide to forgive your husband and try to make the marriage work, there is nothing to be gained and much to be lost by telling them what you have learned about their father. On the other hand, if you decide to end the marriage, you will have to give them a reason for your decision.
