Dear Queenie,
My husband’s parents have never liked me for some reason, I don’t know why. They refuse to visit our home and when there is some family event they invite him, but not me.
I have always been polite and respectful to them, but it is hard to like someone who treats you that way.
Queenie, I really wish my husband wouldn’t let them treat me like that. Am I asking too much?—Left out wife
Dear Left out,
Not at all. He cannot demand that they like you, but he could grow some backbone and insist that they at least accept you and treat you with basic courtesy and respect.