Dear Queenie,
I have fallen in love with my doctor and I’m due for a check-up soon. Neither of us is married or in a relationship.
Queenie, should I say something to him about it or should I go to another doctor first?—Im-patient
Dear Im-patient,
It would be unethical for any doctor to become involved with a patient.
Make an appointment with another doctor for your check-up and afterward explain to your present doctor why you did so. If he shares your feelings he will be free to say so, and if not, you both will be spared future embarrassment.