Dear Queenie,
There is this couple my husband and I have been friends with for a while. The wife and I are very close friends, the husbands not so much so.
Recently when they were leaving our house after an evening together my husband and the wife happened to walk out to the car ahead of me and the husband and suddenly he grabbed me and hugged me very tight with his hand on my backside and I had to push him away very hard. He just laughed and said he wanted to see what I would do.
We haven’t seen them since and I haven’t said anything to my husband about it.
Queenie, how should I handle this? I do not want to spoil my friendship with the wife.—Flustered
Dear Flustered,
The next time you see the husband tell him that if he comes close enough to touch you, you will tell both your husband and his wife what happened. And for the time being, socialise with the wife without the husband,
