Dear Queenie,
I am pregnant with my first child and my best friend is planning a baby shower for me. I heard that she is not only inviting all our girl-friends and -relatives, but also some men.
Queenie, is this proper?—Baby Etty Ket
Dear Etty Ket,
According to my favourite etiquette guru, it is. In fact, these days occasionally someone throws a baby shower for the expectant father – sort of like a bachelor party for a groom-to-be, I expect.