Dear Queenie, A friend of mine is engaged to a man that I happen to know is cheating on her. If it was me, I would want to know, especially before I actually married the guy.
Queenie, should I tell her or keep quiet? Actually, all she has to do is check the texts and pictures in his phone.—Concerned friend
Dear Concerned friend,
I agree that your friend should know what she may be getting into. If you think she would not take a face-to-face conversation well, there is always the good old anonymous note suggesting she have a good look into his cell phone. Just make sure there is no way she can connect the note to you.
And if she then mentions the note to you and asks you what you think, well, “there is no smoke without fire.”
