Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend gets upset at the least little thing and when he does he changes completely. When he feels good he is so sweet and considerate, but when he get mad he’s just plain mean. I know he doesn’t really mean the things he says but it is really hurtful.
Queenie, should I just accept that he isn’t nice all the time?—Worried girlfriend
Dear Worried girlfriend,
That depends on whether he understands how you feel about the way he treats you and is willing to try to change his behaviour.
If he does understand and is willing to try to change, give him a chance. If not, get out before things get worse.
