Dear Queenie,
My husband got upset about the fact that he is getting old and he had an affair with a woman who was married 3 times and cheated on all of her husbands. Now he is living with her and her teenage kids.
I have filed for divorce but he is not cooperating. He cancels legal appointments and even asked me not to go on with the divorce. He says he wants us to get back together and fix things up, but I think it’s about the money, because he’s still living with that other woman.
Queenie, should I give him another chance?—Undecided
Dear Undecided,
Tell your husband he cannot “have his cake and eat it too.” If he leaves the other woman and if you can forgive him, give him what you make clear is his very last chance. If both these conditions are not met, let him go.
