Dear Queenie,
Recently a man I used to be in love with came back to live here. We both got married and then divorced in the meantime and we are both now in committed relationships, but we get together now and then just to visit and keep each other up to date.
Queenie, is this okay or should we not take a chance on being tempted to go further?—Still in love with him
Dear Still in love,
Getting together behind your spouses’/partners’ backs is not a good idea. Instead, why don’t all four of you do things together in a more normal foursome friendship rather than just you and him in a romantic twosome atmosphere?