Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I see each other several times a week for an hour or so and usually drive around for a while and then have sex in his car. We have talked about getting married but never get around to making definite plans.
Queenie, how long should I stick with him?—Lady-in-waiting
Dear Lady,
What do you really know about this guy besides the model of car he drives? You can wait “until the cows come home” but I doubt he will ever actually marry you. Why should he? He gets what he wants several times a week and all it costs him is gas money. He does not even have the courtesy (or maybe the wherewithal) to spring for a hotel room.
