Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend has asked me to marry him and I am certain that that is what I want, except for one problem. I am still a virgin because I have been saving myself for marriage, but I know he had some experience with other women before we started going together.
I don’t think he would ever cheat on me, but it really bothers me that he doesn’t think this is important.
Queenie, how do I get over this?—Resentful
Dear Resentful,
If you cannot bring yourself to accept this fact about him, your resentment could poison your relationship with him.
However, the simple fact is that the older you get the harder it will be to find a man your own age who has not had some sexual experience. And you might want to consider that his experience might well make your wedding night a lot easier for you.
