Dear Queenie,
What does it mean when a guy says, “I love you but I’m not in love with you“?—Puzzled
Dear Puzzled,
That depends on the nature of your relationship.
If you have been having sex with him it probably means “I love having sex with you, but I’m not interested in a monogamous relationship.”
If you have been dating but have not had sex, it probably means he enjoys your company occasionally but does not want to take the relationship any further (possibly because he is gay?).
Or it could just be a very gentle way of breaking up with you.
