Dear Queenie,
A friend of mine is getting married and I have been asked to be in the wedding party and have accepted the honor. The wedding is going to take place some distance from where I live and I have also traveled to several pre-wedding events, plus paying for my wedding outfit, and it’s all getting rather expensive.
Queenie, do I still have to give them a wedding gift?—Out-of-town wedding attendant
Dear Out-of-towner,
Yes, but you do not have to spend a lot on it. In fact, if you are handy that way, you could give them something you make yourself. You also are expected to chip in on all attendants’ group gifts.
