Dear Queenie,
My fiancé and I are getting married later this year. We have been living together for several years and already have everything we need. So we would rather have people donate to our favourite charity than give us stuff we don’t need.
Queenie, is there a right way to do this?—Bridal Etty Ket
Dear Etty Ket,
According to the rules of etiquette, there should be no mention of gifts of any kind on (or with) your wedding invitations.
However, if anyone asks you what kind of gift you would like to receive you may feel free to tell them what you have told me about making a donation in your name.
