Dear Queenie,
Have noticed that a woman parks her car in front of my house at night and goes to the back door of my neighbours’ house. After a while I see her leave by the front door and I see the husband kiss her goodbye.
Obviously there is some kind of monkey business going on right under the wife’s nose, while she is right there in the house.
Queenie, should I tell the wife about it, and if so, should I tell her face-to-face or maybe leave an anonymous letter in her mailbox?—Nosy neighbour
Dear Nosy neighbour,
If the wife is at home while the visitor is there, she cannot help but know what is going on and apparently whatever it is has her blessing, or at least her consent.
For all you know, the visitor is simply a close relative – “kissing kin,” as they say. Or perhaps your neighbours like to indulge in a threesome.
Whatever is going on over there, you should mind your own business. Otherwise, you may find yourself in a very embarrassing position.