Dear Queenie,
A woman I know happened to mention that she hadn’t been out on a date for a while and gave me her number when I asked for it, but when I called her she made some excuse like she had something else to do that night.
I have seen her around since then but I never called her again because I figured she didn’t really want to go out with me, so why bother.
But Queenie, if that was the case, why did she even give me her number? Why do women lead you on that way?—Just wondering
Dear Wondering,
It is quite possible she really did have something else to do that night, or was testing you to see how badly you wanted to go out with her, and was disappointed that you never called again.
You should have given her a second chance – suggested a different night for the date, or called her again at least once.
