Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and his ex-wife were married for almost 20 years and didn’t have any children. He didn’t want a divorce and still is very friendly with her. They see each other often and he says she is still his best friend even though they are divorced.
Queenie, I think I should be his best friend now. Is that unreasonable?—Jealous girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
Assuming the two of you are in a supposedly exclusive committed relationship, no, it is not unreasonable for you to have doubts about your boyfriend’s close relationship with his ex-wife.
Apparently he is in the process of building up a little harem for himself. If his ex is okay with that, that is her business, but if you are not, dump him and find someone more monogamous.
