Dear Queenie,
My husband is a wonderful husband and father, except for his personal hygiene. He is exhausted when he comes home from work and just lies down and goes to sleep without taking a shower or a bath. Sometimes he wants sex then or later, but he smells so bad it just turns me off.
I’ve asked him to clean up before we go to bed, but he won’t do it every night.
Queenie, what more can I do?—His wife
Dear Wife,
If he is not too tired to want sex, he should not be too tired to get clean first. When you ask him to clean up, offer to take a shower or bath with him “for fun”
