Dear Queenie,
I‘ve been dating this cute guy casually for some time, nothing serious, and he has made it clear that he is not interested in a serious relationship. However, I have developed very strong feelings for him and would like to take this further.
Queenie, should I tell him how I feel before he gets interested in someone else?—Head-Over-Heels In Love
Dear In Love,
Tell him how you feel, but do not demand anything from him in return. Then, if he does not run for cover, you will have to decide whether you want to continue seeing him on his terms, hoping he will reciprocate your feelings and taking the risk of having to watch him fall in love with someone else.