Dear Queenie,
I got married right out of high school and divorced a few years later. Since then I have dated several women, but I am not interested in any committed relationship. Right now I am dating two different women, both of whom would like to get married even though they both know how I feel about it. One of them knows I am also dating someone else. The other does not.
Queenie, do you have any advice for me?—Happily single
Dear Single,
As long as you are happy with the way things are I have no advice for you except this: You should tell the lady who does not already know that you are dating someone else too and let her decide whether she is willing to continue seeing you.
