Dear Queenie,
My parents pretty much ignore me and my sister except when we get scolded for doing something wrong or even just not doing something quite right, but our brother get praised for everything he does, no matter what it is.
I tried talking to my mother about this but she says that’s just the way things are and I should learn to live with it.
Queenie, please help?—Disrespected
Dear Disrespected,
It would seem that your parents are rather old-fashioned, or come from a culture that does not place the same value on girls as on boys.
If your parents do not give you the validation you deserve, look for it in other places such as from your teachers and sports coaches if you play any sports.
Meanwhile, you and your sister should continue to try to do your very best. I promise you, it will pay off in the long run. Eventually your employers and colleagues will recognise and acknowledge your efforts even if your parents are not capable of doing so.
