Dear Queenie,
My wife cheated on me. She admitted it and I forgave her, but I can’t get it out of my mind.
I am not in love with her anymore and I’m only staying with her because of our children, but I’m getting more and more unhappy.
Queenie, should I stay in a marriage that no longer makes me happy or should I just give up and leave, and if so when?—Cuckolded
Dear Cuckolded,
You are asking my permission to break up your marriage, but I cannot give it. This is a decision you have to make for yourself if and when you are ready to take the responsibility for doing so.
