Dear Queenie,
The other night our 4-year-old daughter woke up in the middle of the night and came to our bedroom when we were in the middle of having sex. I don’t know how long she was standing there watching us before we realized she was there.
Queenie, what should we do about this? Should we talk to her about it or just pretend it didn’t happen?—Caught in the act
Dear Caught,
If she asks you about what she saw, give her age-appropriate answers. But only if she brings up the subject.
And from now on lock your bedroom door when you are doing anything you do not want to be caught at.
