Dear Queenie,
My wife cheated on me with a family friend and lied to everybody about how I mistreated her and they believed her.
We got divorced and she married the guy she cheated with and they won’t even let me see my children.
I can’t stand it here anymore, but if I move away I will lose my job and all contact with my kids.
Queenie, what should I do?—All alone
Dear All alone,
If you move away your children might feel abandoned. At least if you are here they will know you are trying to see them and perhaps with legal help you can force your ex to let you do so. I hope you will consider their feelings when you make your final decision.
