Dear Queenie,
I am very happy that my boyfriend has chosen for me. He promised me to wed me, but he still lives with his wife. I just can't resist his shiny eyes and ponytail. And I think I am pregnant too.
Oh, Queenie, could you please tell me where I am standing?—A yachtboy’s girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
You are standing on the outside looking in, and that is where you will remain as long as your boyfriend is still living with his wife. There is no way he can marry you unless and until he divorces her and I doubt that will happen soon, if ever.
I will give you the same advice I gave Byside (Wednesday, April 19 – I suspect you are the same person): You should have ended this relationship as soon as you found out your boyfriend is married. As for your being pregnant by him, it is never a good idea to try to keep a man by getting pregnant. Doing so is just as likely to drive him away as to hold him to you.
