Dear Queenie,
My husband and I do not have a good marriage, but he wants us to have children. Some time ago I got pregnant and then had a miscarriage, and since then I have been taking contraceptives without him knowing it. He keeps saying he wants children and I keep telling him it’s not going to happen.
Queenie, should I explain to him why?—Worried wife
Dear Wife,
What you have been doing, letting him live with the hope of having a child(ren) is not fair to your husband. However, I can understand why you hesitate to tell him the truth.
As usual in a situation like this, I recommend professional counselling to help you decide what to do.
