Dear Queenie,
My husband is always talking about other women he sees. He comments on how good they look and how smart they are and what nice personalities they have. Even when he is out with me he stares at other women and comments about them.
If I complain that he is disrespecting me he apologises, but he doesn’t stop doing it.
Queenie, do you think he is cheating on me behind my back?—Worried wife
Dear Wife,
I do not think he is cheating, or he (I hope!) would have the sense to be more secretive about his ogling and his comments. Nevertheless, you are right that this is disrespectful to both you and your marriage and to the other women involved.
Ask him to go with you for professional counselling to find out why he does it and how he can learn to modify this offensive behaviour.
