Dear Queenie,
Recently my teenage nephew stayed with us for a few days while his parents were away. After he left I discovered that he had been going to free porn sites and chat room on my computer. By doing this he risked infecting my computer with a virus and I don’t like the idea of him looking at porn.
Queenie, should I talk to him or to his parents, or should I just lock up my computer when he is around?—Worried aunt
Dear Worried,
All of the above.
You must protect your computer, you should explain to your nephew the risk he was taking with it, and you should warn his parents about his interest in pornography.