Dear Queenie,
A long time ago I had sex one time with a married co-worker. After that we still worked together, but we stopped flirting and having lunch together now and then like we did before. She said what we did was wrong and she felt guilty. I think her husband suspected what happened, but my wife never had a clue.
She went on to another job, but I still think about her and I would like to get in touch with her and maybe have lunch and talk about old times.
Queenie, would that be all right?—Undecided
Dear Undecided,
I do not think this would be a good idea. I think you want to restart your romance with this woman, but she is still married and so are you. Forget about it!
