Dear Queenie,
I work at night, so I pick up my kids at school in the afternoon while my wife is still at work at her daytime job. There is a woman I met while we were waiting to pick up our kids and she suggested that we get together some time for coffee.
I’m thinking of going out with her, because I really, really like her and my marriage isn’t all that great these days.
Queenie, should I?—Undecided
Dear Undecided,
What you should do is make sure this woman knows you are married, not single or divorced, and see whether her offer is still open. If it is, you will know she is the kind of woman who does not mind interfering in someone else’s marriage, which may (I hope) change the way you feel about her.
Either way, you should turn down her offer and work with your wife on whatever is wrong in your marriage.
