Dear Queenie,
I always used to dream of getting together with a woman who liked sex as much as I do. But when I finally did, it was more like a nightmare.
First of all, I couldn’t satisfy her. We were together every night and I thought I had a lot of stamina in bed, but she was never satisfied, even when I was exhausted.
Then I found out she was going with other men when I was at work and I don’t think she was having safe sex because she never wanted to use a condom when she was with me.
I tried to get her to cool it a little for my sake and she said she would because she loved me, but I heard she was still going out behind my back so I got scared and I dumped her.
Queenie, if a man is expected to control his appetite for sex to please a woman, why isn’t a woman expected to do the same for her man?—Too pooped to pop
Dear Pooped,
Of course people who love each other should be expected to make compromises to reconcile their differences.
However, you seem to have hooked up with a woman who was a nymphomaniac, which is a far different matter than just liking sex. Nymphomania is an addiction to sex and, by definition, uncontrollable. Sometimes psychological counselling can help, but the woman must want to be helped, and even then it can be difficult.
I suggest you take a long, very restful vacation and then start looking for a woman with a more compatible libido.
