Dear Queenie,
I don’t think my husband is cheating on me but he is certainly flirting with women he talks to on social media and keeping it a secret from me. I found out by accident when I borrowed his phone to make a call while mine was charging.
Queenie, should I tell him I know about it?—Suspicious wife
Dear Wife,
Tell him what you told me – that you found out by accident – and apologise for it. Then tell him how it makes you feel and ask him to go with you for marriage counselling, and if he will not go with you, go without him.