Dear Queenie,
Recently my wife’s old boyfriend came back to the island for a visit with his family and invited her out to dinner to talk about old times. I told her I don’t think she should go out with him and we had a big argument about it. She insists that their relationship was over long ago and now they are just friends and I am just being jealous.
Queenie, what do you think?—Suspicious husband
Dear Husband,
I think you should tell her you would love to meet her friend and both of you will have dinner with him. I think you will know from her reaction whether you have any reason to be suspicious.