Dear Queenie,
I got divorced because my husband cheated on me and my present boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 years and have a lovely daughter.
The thing is, I can’t seem to get over my ex-husband or cut off from his family and I keep wondering if there is someone better for me out there than my child’s father.
Queenie, is it possible that my ex and I could get back together?—Still searching
Dear Searching,
It is long past time for you to grow up and stop searching for “someone better.” You have a child to love and nurture, and that means giving her a stable environment – which means making a firm commitment to her father and making your life with him the best it can be. If necessary, get professional counselling to help you resolve your obvious issues and learn how to do this.
