Dear Queenie,
I dated a wonderful guy for several years, but he said he wasn’t interested in getting married or having children, so we never really got serious, but I really fell in love with him and I kept hoping.
Then he told me he had met someone he was really in love with and was going to move in with her, so I made up my mind to get over him. But every time I think I have got over him he calls me and wants to see me.
Queenie, do you think I still have a chance with him?—Still in love
Dear Still in love,
This guy may be in love with someone else, but he is looking to cheat on her every time he calls you. On the other hand, if he had any real feelings for you, he wouldn’t have become involved with someone else.
I think this guy is taking advantage of both of you, and any other woman with whom he may be involved as well. I think he can’t be trusted and you’re better off without him.
