Dear Queenie,
My husband and I have a satisfying sex life, but it doesn’t include actual intercourse, only what he calls alternative forms of gratification – sex toys and such-like.
Queenie, what could I be doing wrong?—Puzzled wife
Dear Puzzled,
Have you tried to talk to your husband about this? Is it possible that he actually is gay? Or suffers from some form of erectile dysfunction? If the latter is a possibility, encourage him to discuss it with his family physician. A visit(s) to a marriage counsellor and/or a sex therapist might also help.
