Dear Queenie,
I lived with a man for several years, but about a year ago he made some kind of excuse and left. It took me a while to get over him, but then I started dating again and met another man I love just as much as I loved the one before him.
I really do love him, but recently we had a big argument about some small matter and while we were on the outs my former lover got in touch with me and apologized and said he wanted us to get back together again.
I still have feelings for him, but my friends say not to give him a second chance.
Queenie, what do you say?—Pulled 2 ways
Dear Pulled,
Things probably will be great for a while if you go back to man #1, until you have another argument, and by that time man #2 probably will have found someone else.
Take some time to think carefully about what you want in a relationship before you make a commitment to anyone.
