Dear Queenie,
My husband has always claimed he doesn’t care about anything I did with any other man before we met but he keeps asking me for details about all those previous relationships.
I did have sex with a couple of them while we were together, but that all ended long before I even met my husband and he knows it.
So, Queenie, why is he so bothered by it now?—Pestered Wife
Dear Wife,
I suspect your husband finds the information provocative and titillating. He also may be afraid he suffers by comparison – and possibly that you might be tempted to cheat on him. Try to reassure him.
