Dear Queenie,
On New Year’s Eve at a party a couple I am friends with asked me if I would like to get together with them some time for what they called “a threesome.” I’m a normal; man and she’s a good-looking woman and I would love to “get together” with her any time, but not with her husband staring at us, and certainly not with him!
Queenie, I said “No, thanks,” but what must they think of me?—Perplexed
Dear Perplexed,
Maybe the wife finds you attractive and her husband was willing to indulge her if he was present to watch. Or perhaps the husband is bisexual and was hoping you were gay and his wife was willing to indulge him if she was present to watch.
Or possibly they were drunk and not thinking at all.
Whatever opportunity they were offering you, you were very wise not to take them up on the offer.
