Dear Queenie,
A long time ago I was engaged to this girl but I broke the engagement because I didn’t feel ready to get married and eventually we both got married to someone else.
Now, all these years later, we are both single again and I asked her to go out with me and she did.
Queenie, should I tell her I am still in love with her?—Lovelorn
Dear Lovelorn,
You can, but do not expect her to respond in kind immediately. It will take time for her to trust you again, if it ever happens. Let her get to know you again and hope for the best.