Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been together for several years but every time I want to talk to him about getting married and starting a family he changes the subject.
Queenie, I can’t wait forever. What do you suggest?—Lady-in-waiting
Dear Lady,
You will have to resign yourself to the status quo or give him a deadline for marriage – and mean it. So if it is the latter, be prepared to walk out (or kick him out) and find someone else if he does not come through for you.