Dear Queenie,
I’m in a relationship with one of the most difficult guys ever! But I’m so in love with him. Sometimes I feel like I’m too much in love with this guy.
Well, Queenie, I need your advice. I’m trying to make him my last, but I find myself always nagging him way too much on the same things over and over. Keep in mind, I do love my boyfriend but I’m ready for a change and if it doesn’t happen I’m ready to leave.
So, Queenie, please tell me what you think.—In love but blind
Dear In love,
So, you are in love with this guy, but obviously you are not blind to what you consider his faults, because you keep nagging him to change. If he needs to change his ways to be what you want a guy to be, then what he is now is not what you want in a life partner.
Instead of trying to mould this guy into what you consider the perfect man, set him free to find a woman who thinks he is perfect just the way he is (if he can), and leave yourself free to find someone who already meets your requirements (if you can).
