Dear Queenie,
Recently I met up with this guy I used to date in high school and we started going together again, He had gotten married and then divorced in the meantime but he says he was always in love with me and now he wants to marry me.
However, up to now I haven’t even met his children, let alone got to know them. He is very close to them and as far as I can see he is a great father. They must know about me because he has a picture of me on his nightstand, so why can’t I meet them?
Queenie, what do you think?—Impatient
Dear Impatient,
I think you are being too patient. It is time to start wondering if this guy is really divorced or just stringing you along.