Dear Queenie,
A while after my boyfriend and I broke up I started dating again, nothing serious and with more than one guy.
Now all of a sudden my ex gets jealous and has a fit whenever I go out with anyone, but he’s not interested in getting back together with me, not that I would want it after the way he treated me.
Queenie, what’s with him? He doesn’t want me, but he doesn’t want me to see anyone else.—Hassled
Dear Hassled,
Apparently your ex is insulted because you seem to be getting along quite well without him. Tell him to get a life of his own and leave you out of it.
If that does not work, tell him exactly where he can go and what he can do when he gets there, to put it in terms that are fit to print in a family newspaper.
If he is really harassing you, tell him you will file a complaint with the police if he does not leave you alone – and then do so if he does not.
