Dear Queenie,
I suspect that my boyfriend doesn’t wash his hands after he uses the toilet. I never hear the water running after he flushes and his hands don’t feel cold or wet when he comes out of the bathroom. Other than that he’s just about everything I want in a man.
Queenie, should I say something to him? And how do I go about it?—Grossed out
Dear Grossed out,
Do you keep a bottle of hand-sanitiser in your bathroom? Either way, ask him what kind of sanitiser or soap he would like you to provide. Make it clear to him – tactfully – that you expect him wash carefully after using the toilet.
And if he still does not wash up, dump him before he passes E. coli or some other infection on to you!
